Christmas Cheer Day 22 - Breath of Heaven

And for me... this is Christmas. 

Photo: The Nativity Story

One of the most beautiful Christmas songs out there, sung by one of my favorite musical artists, Amy Grant. 

Listen.

Breath of Heaven (Mary's Song) Amy Grant

Christmas Cheer Day 21 - Peace Train (or Tricycle)

It was December 1960. I was barely two years old. I didn't know a lot... but according to my mother, I knew that Christmas was a'comin' and... 

I. Was. Ready.

Santa came to my Mama Hodie's house that year (my mom's mom.) I only have flashes of memory, and frankly wonder if those flashes are more the result of the very few, well-worn photographs instead of my actual cognizance of that Christmas morning in the piney woods of southeast Texas.

Regardless... it looks like I had every 2 year old's 1960 Christmas-dream-come-true under the tree... a tricycle and a jack-in-the-box! What more could you want? Well, there's the tea-party table and chairs that you do not see in the photograph, and the baby-doll to entertain at said tea-party...but that's beside the point.

As I perused old Christmas photos searching for inspiration for tonight's blog, I began to reflect on the simpler times of my life. It became clear that the happiest Christmases really were the ones where the focus was not on the getting, but more on the giving.. and the loving... and the laughing. 

So, what is at the top of my Christmas list this year? It's a short list. Just one item, really. But if delivered, it could lead to so many more gifts that last beyond the glitter and the gift-wrap.

This year I wish for peace. For you. For me. For our families. For our world. 

Wanna' get on my peace train? (Or tricycle?)  Decide to take  at least one step to make the peace... keep the peace.. share the peace. And in some cases.. you might have to just "hold your peace." And, that's okay, too.

Get a jump start by listening to Vince Gill on youtube. Just click here: Let There Be Peace on Earth - Vince Gill

Christmas is a-comin'.

I. Am. Ready. 

Christmas Cheer Day 20 - Home Sweet Home

Day 20 - Christmas Cheer!

I've been decorating my own house for Christmas since I was 20 years old. (That was a couple of years ago....) But, there's just something about helping your dad and mom decorate their house that is especially sweet! Because, I don't care how old you are. Nothin' beats Bing Crosby's White Christmas on the CD player... wrappin' lights around the tree with your daddy... and sneaking Christmas cookies from your mama's kitchen counter.

We got a late start at my folks' house this year. My dad and I were wrapping lights around the tree this afternoon while Mom sat out the reindeer, and snowmen, and Santas, and Christmas bears and... well, you get the idea. I'll share the finished product.. mmmm, once it's finished!

For the first time in awhile, most of our rather large family will be together for the holidays this year... not on Christmas Day, but that's okay. Anytime we are all together.. it's Christmas...and a cause for celebration!

I would love to hear your stories of family togetherness at Christmas. What's your favorite family tradition or memory? You can comment on this blog, or email me.. or just think about it privately!  Cherish your family and others you love....during the holidays and always.

Merry, Merry... y'all!

Christmas Cheer Day 19

Day 19 - Christmas Cheer

I am blessed to have a lot of creative friends, particularly at Christmas. I live vicariously through their mesh-masterpieces, wonderful wreaths and elegant embellishments.

Photo: Goodfon.com

My attempt at Christmas crafts ended many years ago when I had an unfortunate run-in with a hot glue gun, some rhinestones and snowflakes... and a freaked-out kitty who tore through my masterpiece on his way to the top of the Christmas tree. 

Sigh.

On the downside.. my crafty buddies make me feel very inadequate at times.On the upside, my creative friends provide me with many moments of visual joy!  And that brings me to the photo tonight that brought a smile to my face and Christmas cheer to my heart!

Photo: Leah Yarbrough Fuqua

Check out the grapevine snowman on my friend, Leah Yarbrough Fuqua's front door! I love the creativity, simplicity and ingenuity of this cheerful door decor!

I am just 6 days away from the final Christmas Cheer blog entry. So, tip your (Santa) hat in salute to those who make our holidays more fun with their sometimes traditional, sometimes off-beat, but, always fun decorations that help make our holidays complete.

Merry, Merry... Y'all! 

Christmas Cheer Day 18- Wow! Did you HEAR THAT?

Day 18 - Christmas Cheer 

Photo Credit: Bill Starling Mobile Press-Register
bstarling@al.com

Today's Christmas Cheer is beauty for the the eyes, the ears... and the spirit! Carol of the Bells was presented as part of the University of Mobile's 10 Annual Christmas Spectacular presentation...in a way you may never have seen it before! 

Do yourself a favor. Click the youtube link below (it's safe and virus-free) and take a few minutes to watch and listen to this awesome piece of music, which is performed by incredibly talented singers, musicians and orchestra director Steve Dunn. Don't be lulled into familiarity by the traditional opening It's filled with surprises that just may take your breath away! 

Photo Credit: Dan Anderson

The first comes about 2:00 into the piece..
it's these guys... UM alumni- dueling guitarists! 

Photo Credit: Dan Anderson

The second at around 3:53. (Here's a clue.: Drum. Line.)

Here's the link.CLICK IT. And... enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=qL02bl8MnMs

Christmas Cheer Day 17- Yummy!

Today's Christmas Cheer is served up in a mug! 

A steaming cup of Holiday Spice Tea seemed just the ticket to brighten the otherwise gray, rainy day we are having on the Florida/Alabama Gulf Coast.

No matter what the weather may be at your holiday homestead... you should try it! The recipe was passed along to me several years ago. I am passing it along to you as my gift to you today!

Merry, Merry... ya'll!

Holiday Spice Tea
2 cups Tang instant orange drink
1/2 C. instant tea (I used Community brand with lemon)
2 c. sugar
2 tsp cinnamon powder
2 tsp ground cloves
Mix together and store in an airtight container. Use 2-3 heaping tsp to 6-8 oz hot water.

Christmas Cheer Days 16

Photo Courtesy: Robert Antoine

Today's Christmas Cheer comes to us courtesy of a new friend I met at the recent Christmas Craft Fair at St. Anne Catholic Church in Pensacola, FL.

I visited the sanctuary during one of my pre-fair visits. It is one of the prettiest churches I've ever been inside. The Christmas decorations only make it more so.

In light of the pain that our country has felt in the past few days, following the horror in Newtown, CT... I wanted to share this picture of peace... and to ask you to continue to pray. 

For peace.
For healing. 
For wisdom.

No Christmas Cheer- Day 14

Day 14 - No Christmas Cheer.

It was inappropriate today to write a blog entry on Christmas cheer. 

Credit: Douglas Healey/Getty Images

Truth be told, I am sure I join millions across the country... and around the globe.. as we react with stunned disbelief to the news that 20 elementary school children, and six adults, died in a horrific shooting at a Newtown, Connecticut school. 

The facts are still unfolding. Some of what we've been told will change, as the investigation moves forward. 

One fact remains. Lives were cut short today. 

20 little beds will be empty tonight. 6 adults will not be home with their families. And, the lives of their loved ones have been forever changed.

Christmas cheer? It's in short supply tonight.It will return, to a greater or lesser degree, as the days go by. But tonight, cheer is replaced by the grief and heartache we feel for people we do not even know.

Please pray for the family and friends of those who were murdered today.

And, if you haven't already done so, hug your children... no matter how young... or how old... they may be.

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird Day 13

Day 13- Christmas Cheer!

They say a picture is worth a thousand words. Here you can have both! Actually, it's a picture.... and several thousand words!

The Christmas tree at the Pensacola State College library is made entirely of books! 

I've read that books are one of the most popular gift items for Christmas. That reminded me of this quote  by Charles "Tremendous" Jones

"You will be the same person in five years as you are today, except for the people you meet and the books that you read."

Here's to meeting... and reading... and growing.

Merry, Merry... ya'll!

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird Day 12

Day 12- Christmas Cheer

This one made me smile.

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird Day 11

Day 11- Christmas Cheer!

Where can you find the prettiest Christmas decorations? Well, it all depends...

New York City  has its Rockefeller Center Christmas tree complete with 30,000 lights.

Washington, D.C. has it's 40-something foot tall National Christmas Tree, and the 57-tree Pathway of Peace.

Walt Disney World has Cinderella's Castle all decked out in a breathtaking display of beautiful lights.

But, sometimes... sometimes.. the prettiest Christmas decorations are found in the small, quiet cities and towns of America.

Sometimes, they are found In communities where Christmas is more about giving than grabbing; more about family than fancy parties; more about the Presence, than about the presents.

So.... enjoy this view from the Riverwalk in Milton, Florida. A small town, with a big heart... and a  keen eye for decorating! 

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird- Day 10

Day 10- Christmas Weird

This little piggy went to... the North Pole?

He's a cutie-pig for sure... but no doubt this little fella fits into the Christmas Weird category! Found him sandwiched between angels and snowmen in a Christmas display in Santa Rosa County, FL.

Perhaps the decorator is an Arkansas Razorback fan. "Sooooooooooo-ie, Santa!" Love it!

Merry, Merry... ya'll.

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird Day 9

Day 9- Christmas Cheer


If you think about it, Christmas really is about simplicity. On that night which changed the course of history, there was no fancy birthing suite; no skilled medical team in attendance; no expensive custom-designed cradle or  designer newborn outfit with an elaborate "J" monogrammed on the front. 

No. 

There was just a tiny baby, born in a tiny stable under the stars; born with stable animals in attendance; wrapped in 'swaddling clothes' and then placed in manger. 

All of these thoughts came to me this week, as I was keeping my eye out for Christmas decorations and displays to share with you. I happened to find myself in downtown Mobile one day, and I stopped in the Cathedral Basilica of the Immaculate Conception.


Because the historic church is so beautifully ornate, I expected the Christmas decorations inside to be the same. Instead, I found a simple display of poinsettias at the altar.

And, it kinda' took my breath away. 

Because without a potpourri of Christmas clutter to make me go, 'ooh' and 'ahh,' I found myself focusing on the reason we celebrate Christmas in the first place. 

He's right there...at the top of the photograph... near the ceiling. 

Don't get me wrong. I love Christmas decorations. I love to look at them. I love to put them up. I even love packing them up every year, with the anticipation of getting them out again the next December! 

But, sometimes...

Sometimes, I like to focus on the simplicity of the season. Slow down. Reflect. Enjoy time rather than things. Spend time with family instead of at so many functions. Focus on the Presence rather than the presents. 

Think about it. For at least a couple of days this holiday season, just chill. Stop running around fretting that you won't have the perfect holiday if you don't have every trapping that we are programmed to believe is necessary for a wonderful Christmas celebration, Think stable-manger-stars. Think simplicity. 

NOW... having said all that, I am off to the Surfing Santa  Beach parade this afternoon. Something tells me I may have a few photographs to put into the "Christmas Weird" blog entries in the coming days. Merry, merry... ya'll.

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird Day 8

Day 8 - Definitely Christmas Cheer!

Have you ever thought about what it was really  like that night in Bethlehem? 

Nativity scenes try to capture the moment. But, the "Bethlehem Experience" takes things to the next level, as it gives you the opportunity to walk-through a re-creation of the Bethlehem marketplace and a live nativity on the night of Christ's birth. WATCH THE VIDEO BELOW!

The display caught the attention of Mobile, AL television station, WKRG. Follow this link for the story.. (you may have to copy & paste)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yBCUm0quN-A&sns=fb


Then, check out the next Bethlehem Experience at Moffett Road Baptist Church in Mobile, AL tonight (Dec. 8) 6-8 p.m. and again Thursday, Friday and Saturday (December 13-15) also from 6-8 p.m. 

The folks at Moffett Road Baptist Church comprise an awesome community of faith. I've had the opportunity to meet and work with many of them. You owe it to yourself to have the Bethlehem Experience this Christmas season. 

"Let us go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about." Luke 2:15

Today's Christmas Cheer blog was inspired by a friend who shared the Bethlehem Experience with me. I'm searching for Christmas decorations and displays that capture my attention...from the traditional ones like the Bethlehem Experience.. to the more off-beat (see Day 3.)  If you have one you'd like me to share, get in touch with me via a comment, or through Facebook!

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird- Day 7

Day 7- Christmas Cheer!

I am having trouble finding additions to the "Christmas Weird" entries.

I am thinking that's a good thing.

 I DID see a billboard the other day advertising two personal injury lawyers wearing Santa hats. I thought that was kinda' weird.. but I let it pass.

Today's entry comes from the Renaissance Battle House Hotel in downtown Mobile, AL. This 26 foot tall Christmas tree is breathtaking! If you are anywhere near here, CHECK IT OUT! 

They have  a picture frame and chair set up in front of it so that you can take you own Christmas photo. 

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https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=512339812119118&set=a.208985172454585.53902.208984399121329&type=1&theater

This Christmas display was recommended to me by a blogging and FB friend. If you see a Christmas decoration, or display, that is pretty... or pretty weird... let me know! I'd love to share it. In the meantime, check out my previous blog entries.. and MERRY CHRISTMAS!

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird Day 6

Day 6- Christmas Cheer

I've seen so many beautiful Nativity scenes while scouting Christmas decorations to share with you. This one caught my eye because of its sheer size! The life-size scene covers a lot of ground! It sits outside a church on Highway 90 in Pace, FL.

 

The scripture on the banner behind the Nativity: Matthew 1:21 "thou shalt call his name Jesus." 

If you run across a pretty... or even pretty weird... Christmas display this holiday season, let me know! I'd love to share it, as we count down to December 25. Merry Christmas!

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird Day 5

Day 5- Christmas Cheer

I found this lawn decoration while driving through a lovely, quiet neighborhood. It made me smile! I love that Santa is the conductor of this Christmas train and Frosty is right behind him!

Check out my previous blogs with Christmas decorations that range from 'cheer' to 'weird.' If you know of a pretty-- or pretty weird-- Christmas decoration, let me know. I'd love to share it!

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird! Day 4

I'm spending the days leading up to Christmas sharing holiday decorations that catch my eye... for better or worse--from Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird! 

Day 4- Christmas Cheer AND Christmas Weird!


Bellingrath Gardens and Home-Magic Christmas in Lights has to be one of my favorite places to go during the Christmas season. It is a winter wonderland filled with lights that depict all things wonderful,and some things weird-y-ful, about this magical time of year. You decide which is which!

Only in the South.
Christmas lights in the shape of an armadillo.

A view from the lake

If you know of a Christmas decoration that is especially pretty.. or pretty weird... let me know! I'd like to share it!

In the meantime, check out Bellingrath Gardens Magic Christmas in Lights! http://www.bellingrath.org/

From Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird! Days 1,2,3

I am NOT going to say it. I am NOT going to say it. Okay... I am going to say it. It IS beginning to look a lot like Christmas... everywhere you go.

What has caught my eye of late, however, is not just the amount of decorations that are up, but the wide, and often bizarre, variety of lights, garland, tinsel.. and blow up Santas.

So... my plan was to put up 25 days of Christmas decorations ranging from Christmas Cheer to Christmas Weird, one day at a time. The first three days of the month got away from me, so here are days one, two and three all at once!

Day 1: Christmas Cheer

Coming off of a painful football season, Auburn University needs something to be happy about. (I'm the mother of an Auburn grad and a big fan, so be careful now.. ya' hear?)  I found it tonight on Samford Lawn. The Christmas tree is a reminder that life is about more than football. It's about hope, promise.... and perhaps the gift of a better season on the field next year!  War Eagle!!

Day 2: Christmas Cheer

Oh, Christmas tree, Oh, Christmas tree! How lovely are your branches! I found this tree at the Christmas Market at St. Anne Catholic Church in Pensacola...a small church with a BIG heart and an even BIGGER Christmas tree! I wasn't there when it was decorated. Wonder who in the world they got to go all the way up there to put the angel in her perfect spot?

Day 3: Christmas Weird

COVER THE KIDS' EYES! Found this yard decoration in Pace, Florida. Santa bagged a (rein)deer. Oh, my. Hope Rudolph doesn't see this.


Stay tuned.. more cheer and weird are headed your way! If you see a particularly pretty.. or strange... Christmas display, let me know! I'm on the hunt... pun intended.

Energy Bar

Some reach for coffee for a pick-me-up.

But, my energy is not found in a cup!

After a long day working on my trusty laptop

And facing several more hours before I can stop

I reach for the real woman's "energy bar."

Hershey's, your my hero...my energy star!

Turkey Trot

My tennis shoes pounded the pavement today.
Running off turkey and that big dessert tray!
The Thanksgiving meal was truly delish',
Did I limit my 'intake?' Yeah, right... I just wish.

One step for the potatoes, now one for the pies,
I just kept on running. No calories on my thighs!
After the first mile, I was tempted to stop.
But I remembered the dressing, with gravy on top!

So, I took a deep breath and stayed on track,
Not wanting to add girth to my view 'round back.
I ran those two miles,  (I should have run three)
Turkey trot's done...now to leftovers.. with glee!

Faith At Work.. Even In A POW Camp

Today is the day we observe Veteran's Day in the USA. I thought it an appropriate time to revisit a piece I wrote several years ago for a devotional DVD entitled "Anchored"- a collection of faith-based thoughts taken from experiences I had, and people I met during my thirty years as a television journalist. Retired LCDR Ralph Gaither is one of those people. He survived 7-plus years in a POW camp, and went onto share the faith that took him through that nightmare. Thank you, sir, for your service and your story of faith. Thank you... to all of you who serve and protect the United States of America.

Remote Control

“Don’t be afraid; just believe.”

Mark 5:26

He spent more than seven years locked away in a Hanoi prison cell. This brave U.S. Navy fighter pilot was shot down during a combat mission over North Vietnam during the Vietnam War. In this hell on earth known as a POW camp, he endured physical and mental torture, isolation, hunger, and more stress than any human being should be allowed.  But, he told me that no matter how horrific the situation, he never lost sight of his belief that God was in control and would see him through.

Ralph Gaither (now a retired lieutenant commander) told me his story, more than thirty years after his capture. As I listened, I marveled at the strength of this man’s faith, and how it had sustained him during what must have been a terrifying, seemingly impossible and inescapable situation.

In the gospel of Mark, we read the account of a man who was also in what appeared to be an impossible situation. He’d requested Jesus to come to his house and heal his dying daughter. She perished while they were on the way.

But, Jesus was in control.

He simply said to the man, “Don’t be afraid; just believe.” Then, according to Mark, Jesus brought the girl back to life. It was a miracle, as they say, of ‘Biblical proportions.’

It’s likely that my faith, and your faith, will never be supercharged by such an extraordinary event as the one Mark describes. But our faith can be strengthened by the ‘ordinary miracles’ that take place all around us: a healthy birth, a fever that breaks, a love that’s fulfilled, a marriage that’s saved, a child’s first tooth,  an Alzheimer’s patient’s flash of memory, a disease that goes into remission, a successful surgery. And, in the case of the faithful fighter pilot, an eventual release from the nightmare of solitary confinement in a POW cell. 

When you encounter trouble, or a fearful situation, remember that God is in control. And it is not a ‘remote’ control. He is as close as a whispered prayer. Pray for your own faith to be strengthened. Ask for guidance, wisdom and power to get you through your situation, one day-- one step-- one breath at a time.

 Ralph Gaither's book, published in 1974, is available at amazon.com. You should get it. 

Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep

My eyes flew open. My heart... and my thoughts...began to race. So many things to think about, to worry over,  to be anxious for, to plan.  I pressed the display light on my cell phone.

1:36 a.m. Great.

My alarm was set for 4:00, in anticipation of an exceptionally busy day. I closed my eyes and tried to will myself back to sleep. But, as one of my  former television news co-anchors used to say, "I couldn't BUY sleep!" The last time I looked at the clock, it was 3:50. I blinked, it seemed, and the alarm began to blare.

Like a lot of people I know these days, I've been through many changes this year: Graduated from the first leg of my return to higher education. Saw one daughter become married. Sent another off to college.  Worked hard to get a new business on its feet.

It's been intense. 

Sometimes, that intensity makes its way into my subconscious and wreaks havoc on my sleep cycle. Somehow, I'm guessing you can relate.

A few days ago, I decided to devote 2 hours a week to stepping away from the fray, and signed onto a women's study at a local church. The study is authored by Angela Thomas and is called

"Brave. Honest Questions Women Ask."  The title of the first chapter is what sold me: 

"I Am Worn Out."

Lord. Can I get an amen? Seems like a lot of us are tired these days, and much of that fatigue comes from restless nights, tossing and turning as we watch the clock and try to solve all of our problems before the sun comes up. As if.

In today's reading, Ms. Thomas made a statement that jumped right off the pages at me. It was part of her discussion on the need for rest. I've used the same scriptures she quotes in my own talks and writings about God's understanding of our need for rest, and even His directives to do so. Physician, heal thyself! (Or, at least PAY ATTENTION, Drexel!)

The part that lit up like a neon marquee for me had to do with simply closing our eyes and trusting that God is in a much better position than we are to work out our problems.  No amount of tossing and turning,  or fretting and fussing, can outsmart Him.  So, the next time I wake up in the middle of the night, heart and thoughts racing, I'll remember Ms. Thomas's words:

"He can take care of all that I cannot stay awake to worry about."*

I'm looking forward to a good night's sleep tonight. How about you?

*From the book "Brave:Honest Questions Women Ask" by Angela Thomas

Ode to 54

As birthdays go, this one was calm.

A pretty day, it began with a psalm.

"Rejoice!" it instructed. "Burst into song!"

I thought about it...but not for long.

 

My singing voice is like my skin.

With age, it sags, and is becoming thin.

So, instead of singing, I decided to write

About getting older. It's not such a fright.

 

Oh, 54, I used to think

That when I caught up with you, my life would stink!

"I'll have no fun!" I feared the worst.

"I'll eat prunes, wear bad shoes, and keep socks in my purse!"

 

But, 54, you just ain't that bad!

Life is so much better than the fears that I had

Of growing older and losing my youth.

54, listen up and I'll tell you the truth.

 

"Youth is wasted on the young," once said a sage.

I get it! I understand much more at this age.

I appreciate life, its ups and its downs.

I pay attention, embrace, and laugh more than frown.

 

I want to learn, and to grow and to travel, and do!

I'm not afraid to say "I don't know" or "teach me"... it's true!

I do understand the quick passage of time,

Which makes every day precious. Give me a mountain to climb!

 

I understand the importance of holding your children to your heart.

And mending fences that have kept friendships apart.

By the way, I also get that it's harder to lose

The weight I put on when it's ice cream I choose!

 

My skin is not as firm, there's a droop here and there.

And, my roots are gray. No. Wait! They're not! I swear!

I find myself counting the number of full moons.

How many I've seen.. they come and go much too soon.

 

But, all in all, I would say 54 is a breeze.

No prunes for my birthday. Nachos, if you please.

So, take that, 54. You are not such a brute.

And, oh, by the way, my shoes are pretty cute!

 

 

Lighten Up!

After a somewhat strength-sapping week, I decided to put away the laptop and the work and concentrate on.. well, not concentrating! In fact, I decided to take my own advice, and as the weekend approaches.. to lighten up! I re-read that advice in the following entry in the video devotional, Anchored, which I recorded a few years ago. All of the entries in the devotional are based on my life and times in TV news. I thought that perhaps you've had a stressful week, too, and might enjoy reading this entry that I called:

The Fluff Piece

It isn’t always easy maintaining a smile and an optimistic attitude when working in a newsroom. Journalists are bombarded every hour of every day with bad news. Stories of car crashes, train wrecks, corrupt politicians, criminal behavior, abuse, a faltering economy and death-- both accidental and intentional-- come flying through the newsroom one right after another.

 It can become overwhelming and takes a toll on your outlook and mood.

That’s why I was always the newsroom champion of the ‘feel good story.’ The story of the good neighbor, the faithful pet, the child who volunteers, the skydiving grandma-- you get the idea. Other journalists might scoff, and indeed run from, the so called “fluff piece.” To the contrary,  I volunteered for that “beat,” believing these stories provide substance and balance to the daily blues...mmmm,  I mean the daily news.

We all need some “fluff” in our day.

We need a smile, a heart-lightening “moment” that brings balance. Don’t become so consumed by the “important” tasks that you miss the opportunity for the “fluff.” Take time to feed the ducks at the park, turn your face to the sun and feel its warmth, grab a lonely neighbor by the hand and take a walk through a garden or on the beach, or sneak away with your best friend to an afternoon movie. It may not be the most “important” thing you do in your day. Then again, perhaps it will. Because, maybe it will bring you that balance you need after battling your way through the “hard news” of the day.

“This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”
Psalm 118:24 KJV

  

Just Start Flappin'

"Start by doing what is necessary,

 then do what's possible, 

and suddenly you are doing the impossible."

~St. Francis of Assisi

Sometimes, you have to just start flappin'. No telling where it will take you!

What Will They See?

Even when you think no one is watching, someone may have you in their sights.

Her name was Nancy. She sat across the table from me during our newly organized women’s Bible study group. After a particularly intense session, dealing in part with our responses to stressors as Christian women, Nancy looked me straight in the eye. 

“This conversation reminds me of the first time I saw you in person,” she said. “We were in the grocery store. Your daughter ( a toddler) was acting up.”

"Oh, no," I thought, as I braced myself for what was to come.You see, in my younger, hectic, sleep-deprived life as a full time journalist and mother, I wasn’t always at my best at the end of the day with a cranky toddler in tow. Was my testimony about to be blown, right here in the spotlight of the Bible study group?

“I was standing behind you in line,” recalled Nancy. “Your daughter was trying to climb out of the shopping buggy. She was reaching for this candy bar and that package of gum. She was fussy and was getting louder and louder. I watched as you leaned down and got eye-to-eye with her. You began singing “Jesus Loves Me” softly to her, and within seconds she had calmed down. Before you made it to the cashier, you both were singing and she was smiling.” Nancy smiled and said, “I’ll always remember that.”

I actually remember that day so very long ago. Please don’t give me credit for my reaction to my daughter’s ‘spell’, as my grandmother would have called it. I clearly recall that my first instinct was to become angry and impatient. But, a nudging from the Holy Spirit redirected me. Instead of giving into my natural reaction, I prayed for supernatural intervention. He supplied it. And because He came through for us-- with a song and a smile-- His name and my witness left the grocery store intact that day.

Do I keep my cool every time a cranky person crosses my path--when a rude driver cuts me off in traffic--when Life  doesn't 'sit and stay' when I tell it to? I would love to tell you 'yes.'

That would not be the truth.

But, when I do pay attention to that nudging in my spirit, and intentionally step back and let Him take over... the growls turn into grins.. the snarls into smiles... and sometimes, just sometimes, the wisecrack turns into a warble!

It's all about remembering that... it's all about Him... and the person who may be watching us lose control and 'have a spell.'  Even when you think no one is watching...someone may have you in their sights. What will they see?

"The Spirit

gives us

power, love

and self-control."

2 Timothy 1:7 (CEV) 

Plans

"Your natural preference is to plan out your day, knowing what will happen when. My preference is for you to depend on Me continually, trusting Me to guide you and strengthen you as needed."*

Today's Jesus Calling devotional seemed appropriate as so many of our plans were derailed this week by the storm called Isaac. As a natural born planner, it's hard for me to 'go with the flow.' I like having my schedules, and my lists, and my marching orders. 

But, sometimes, we just have to hang on and wait for Him to get us back on track.We have to wait for His plan to kick in. Easy? No. Necessary? Yes. Because, in the end, His plan is the one that really matters.

Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

*Jesus Calling by Sarah Young

On Filling Up that Empty Nest

Now, that I am settling into life as an empty nester, I am learning a few things:

1- I can now prepare asparagus and broccoli for dinner without hearing "Ew... do I have to eat that?"

2- I can clean the kids' bathroom on Monday, and it's still clean on Friday.

3- Laundry really doesn't have to be done every day. Who knew?

I am also learning that if I could roll the clock back a few months:

1- I would happily return to preparing spaghetti, macaroni and cheese and chicken nachos every night.

2 -I would happily pick up those clothes that always piled up behind the bathroom door, and scrub the tub every day.

3- There are worse things than washing, drying and folding clothes.

I miss my kids.  There.   I said it.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not sitting around moping. I'm up and at 'em every day, living my life, working hard and moving forward. I know this is why we raise our children... to eventually release them to become happy, healthy, independent adults who will hopefully live productive, happy, prosperous lives--- and live those lives in such as way as to have a positive influence on society.

 I get that. I also get this: I miss my kids.

Someone recently said to me, "But you wouldn't want them to live with you forever would you?" Actually.....I totally get the whole "Dallas" thing now. 

I do believe I could SO be Miss Ellie, happily moving through life with all of my brood living under the same roof. Each family would have their own wing, mind you (complete with their own bathrooms and laundry rooms!)  There would be total autonomy for each family, with no butting into one another's business. 

But, everyone could gather together around the dinner table at night and give thanks for the food (asparagus for me... mac 'n cheese for them) and for each other.

Does that sound old-fashioned and sappy in today's modern world where careers, and life's obligations and responsibilities are separating us relationally (yes, I know it's not a word, but it should be) as well as geographically? 

Well, don't expect me to apologize.  As Miss Ellie would say,"We may be right and we may be wrong, but we're Ewings (family,) we stick together and that's what makes us unbeatable." She also said (in the face of someone threatening her family) "Ray, go get the shotgun out of the closet." Atta' girl.

Wonder if Southfork can be rented for a family vacation?